Not sure what things need to get done postpartum? Here are 15 things to do after your baby is born in the days and weeks after your baby is born!
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Since the “25 Things to Do Before Your Baby is Born” post was so popular, I thought I would continue on with sharing my lists and share things that I made sure to do after Little J was born.
Coming home from the hospital with a tiny little person can be overwhelming and leave you feeling completely at a loss of what to do. You suddenly are 100% responsible for the care of a helpless little baby. Staying organized can help you keep your sanity while you try to figure out exactly how to be a parent and help your baby grow and develop.
Also, like I’ve said before, I am a list person and I had a very nice list of things I wanted to do after Little J was born so that I wouldn’t forget anything and that I would be able to stay organized. And once he was born, I knew what I had to do and what I wanted to do and I was able to get those things done and focus on taking care of my baby.
So here is my list of 15 things to do after your baby is born. They aren’t in any particular order, and if something doesn’t fit for you then don’t feel like you have to do it. These are just things that were very helpful for me that I did once baby J was born.
1. Write down the birth story.
Personally, I didn’t want to forget anything about Little J’s birth. And there is so much that goes on from before you go into labor until after your baby is home with you. It’s such a special and incredible event, and especially since J was our first baby, I wanted to make sure I remembered everything.
This was one of the first things I did when I got home since it was still all fresh in my mind. I would highly recommend doing this because now that it’s been several months and I don’t remember all the details, it’s really nice to be able to go back and read it. The birth of your child is definitely not something you want to forget.
You can read Little A’s birth story here and Little R’s birth story here.
2. Find a place for hospital things.
When you are at the hospital, you get all sorts of little keepsakes–hospital bracelets, baby hats, the name card from your baby’s crib. Those are the types of things you want to keep. If your baby book has a place for some of them, then those are a great place to store them.
You can also do a shadowbox or something like that. I am a slacker and haven’t done anything yet with the stuff we got at the hospital, but I made sure to keep everything in one place so I wouldn’t lose it. It will be fun to look back later and show J how small his little wrist was!
3. Take newborn pictures.
We were lucky and our hospital had a contract with a local company so we didn’t have to set anything up. But if your hospital doesn’t have something like that, or you already have a photographer in mind, make sure you schedule those pictures very soon after your baby is born.
I’ve heard that within the first week is the best time to get pictures. And if you’re sending out announcements, then this will probably be a priority.
Also, you can take pictures of your baby yourself! If hiring someone isn’t in the budget, there are tons of tutorials and tips on Pinterest about how to take pictures of a newborn.
4. Send out birth announcements.
Not everyone does this, but if you are planning on sending out announcements to friends and family, it’s something you’ll want to get done soon after your baby is born.
I used Shutterfly to do my announcements, but you can also use another website that offers pre-made templates. Or if you are brave or have awesome skills then you can design your own. Either way, if you are going to send them out, do it. Don’t wait until your baby is six-months-old. By then it’s too late!
5. Report the birth to your insurance.
This is important because you want to get your baby covered on your insurance as soon as possible. I’m pretty sure that if your pregnancy was covered on your insurance, the birth will be, too. Most companies give you a certain number of days that the baby is covered after birth (ours was 60 days, but I think most are 30 days) before they won’t be covered anymore, but you might as well get it done soon after your baby is born so you don’t forget.
6. Send in paperwork.
In order to get the official birth certificate and Social Security card, you have to mail in paperwork. I’m pretty sure most hospitals will give you this paperwork, but if you haven’t been given anything to fill out and sign before you leave, ask the nurses and find out what you need to do.
At our hospital they just gave us a packet to fill out, they mailed it for us, and a few weeks later, Little J had his first piece of mail! It was really exciting because it was like he was a real little person (at least according to the government. We knew he already was!).
7. Write down ANY questions.
When you get home and suddenly realize that you are 100% responsible for taking care of your baby, you will have questions. I highly recommend writing them down when they pop into your head so that when you go to your baby’s first appointment, you will not forget to ask the doctor questions.
Even after that first appointment you should still write down questions. If it’s something urgent and you don’t have an appointment soon, call the nurses at the doctor’s office. They’re usually great at getting an answer and calling you back quickly. Little J is six-months-old and I took a whole list of questions in to his appointment last week!
8. Schedule your baby’s first doctor appointment.
Before you leave the hospital, the nurses or doctor should tell you when you need to schedule your baby’s first doctor appointment. Little J had his first appointment 1 1/2 weeks after he was born. They just want to make sure that your baby is gaining weight and I’m sure it’s probably for you to ask questions a little bit, too.
Schedule it as soon as you get home so that you can get an appointment at the right time. Our pediatrician’s office got us in exactly when we were supposed to go, so I’m sure they don’t overbook the doctors specifically for that reason (babies are being born every day!).
9. Schedule your doctor appointment.
Birth is traumatic. Your body and your lady parts go through some seriously crazy stuff. Before you leave the hospital the doctor will tell you to schedule a postpartum appointment for 6 weeks after your baby was born. I think it’s probably just as important to get this appointment scheduled quickly because OB/GYN offices are usually pretty busy (at least mine was). Make sure you get this done soon so that when your baby is 6-weeks-old and you are feeling better (hopefully), you can get the green light from the doctor.
10. Fill out the baby book.
Little J’s baby book had a place for what we were doing when I went into labor, how long I was in labor for, how much weight I gained, pretty much general birth things, and then it also had a place for things like headlines from the day, most popular songs, popular actors and athletes, world leaders, and average prices. Some of that you can do beforehand (if you fill it out right before your baby is born the president probably isn’t going to change), but the birth things you will have to do after baby is born.
You can do this all while baby is napping (newborns sleep a lot!) and then not have to worry about it a month later when things aren’t as fresh in your mind or things may have changed a little.
11. Prepare for monthly pictures.
Buy some monthly body suit stickers or have a patterned blanket handy so you can do monthly pictures. I would highly recommend getting either little monthly body suit stickers or a blanket that has a pattern on it so you can document how much your baby has grown. I know some people take pictures of their baby next to a stuffed animal, too.
And I would recommend taking a picture of your baby as a newborn because it’s fun to put all the pictures up next to each other from birth to the first birthday and see how much your baby has grown. For ideas on what to do for monthly pictures, check out this post.
12. Tell everyone!
As if you needed me to tell you to do this after your baby is born. But really, share the birth of your perfect new family member! Call, text, tweet, Facebook, and Instagram that cutie. Obviously tell your parents first (if they aren’t at the hospital with you), but then definitely go ahead and brag to the world.
13. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
If you get home and within a day your house looks like a bomb hit, ask your friends to come vacuum. People want to help you any way they can, especially people who have already had babies because they know exactly how hard it can be.
If you feel like you can’t cook dinner, ask a friend to set up some meals to be brought in so that you don’t have to worry about it. Really, it might be hard at first to ask someone to come help you, but it will be worth it and they will love getting to see your new bundle of joy.
14. Buy some Baby Tylenol.
This is especially important for when your baby gets his or her shots. You might not be expecting to see this on the list because it’s not really an urgent thing to do after your baby is born, but trust me, you will want to have this on hand before you go get those first shots.
Also, you should know that those little syringe things push the medicine out way fast if you aren’t careful and then your baby will gag and choke on the medicine and you will feel like the worst parent ever. So just be aware that they do not need very much force to push out the medicine.
15. Be patient.
Taking care of a newborn is hard. The first few weeks you might feel like a milk factory and all you ever do is feed your baby. I promise it gets better and you get more comfortable with caring for your baby.
Also remember to be patient with yourself. Your body has been through something insane, so don’t expect to feel better when you get home from the hospital. Take it easy and listen to what the doctors and nurses tell you. You’ll recover, it just takes time.
I hope these tips will help you after you have your baby! Remember that every baby and every mom is different. Everyone is going to want to give you advice about how they got their baby to sleep through the night at 6 weeks, or how they lost all their baby weight in a month. Your baby might not be an amazing sleeper and he might not sleep through the night until he’s 10-months-old, and that’s okay. Lots of women told me to nap when my baby naps, but I honestly never felt like I really needed to nap. I think since Little J was born I’ve taken maybe 3 naps and he’s 6-months-old now. My point is, everyone will give you advice, but you should step back and think about what is going to work for you and your baby.
If you have any other suggestions or ideas, please leave a comment and add to the list!!
TheOtherWoman says
this was super helpful. thanks
Chelsea J says
Thanks! I’m glad I was able to help out! Being a new mom can be so different and scary, but amazing at the same time!
Karolina Rogo says
Cant wait for my baby to be born! I’ll use your ideas for sure:)
Chelsea J says
Thanks! I hope they help! And congratulations!
Rachel Ellender says
I just spent all afternoon reading 5 of your different posts about babies and pregnancy haha 🙂 I’m due at the beginning of August with a little boy and this is my first pregnancy. Everything is so weird!!! It’s been great to read your advice and opinions, I really enjoyed them!
Chelsea Johnson says
Oh how fun! And congratulations! I hope that you found some good and helpful tips because that is what I want to share!! Let me know if you have any questions!
Emily Elmquist says
Just a note on the insurance one: If your pregnancy is being covered under your parents’ insurance, like mine is, you may not have ANY leeway for coverage for your baby! This means it’s very important that you have some kind of secondary insurance under your name so that you can add the baby as soon as he or she is born. I’m sure this is rare, but it’s extremely important that you know whether or not you have a window to get coverage for your baby. Otherwise you may end up with very expensive bills from your baby’s first couple days in the hospital and have no way to get those days covered.
Chelsea Johnson says
Great point! I had secondary insurance for my pregnancy and it was so helpful! It covered everything at the hospital except I think one small thing so we weren’t surprised with any gigantic bills!
Charlie Huson says
Sleep when baby sleeps. 😊
Charlie Huson says
The ?? Supposed to be a smiley face 🙂
Chelsea Johnson says
That’s a good one, too! I never was much of a napper, but I know some moms really need that extra sleep!
Emily Rusch says
Most of these sound great, but I do have a problem with one. Flaunting your babies life all over the place could do some serious damage. I think everyone knows someone who has or is struggling with infertility. The news of your pregnancy was probably hard enough to swallow. Now that your joy is here, they get to literally see all the things they don’t have. Be sensitive in your announcement. A baby is sacred. Take it from someone who knows… My baby died.
Chelsea Johnson says
I’m not really saying that you should flaunt your baby’s life. We struggled with infertility for over a year, and just because we weren’t able to get pregnant doesn’t mean that we weren’t happy for other people who got pregnant and had babies. Yes, be sensitive, but don’t be afraid to share your joy.
Jennifer Lynn says
My husband and I are still struggling with Infertility after 7 years. So I understand what you’re saying. I think for example if you KNOW someone on your friends list is struggling with infertility, post an announcement and a picture ONCE, then hide all future posts about your baby from just that person. Of course they can hide you as well if it really bothers them. I had 5 girls on my friends list all give birth around the same time and my Facebook became nothing but Babies. It was painful on some days. Doesn’t mean I’m not happy for them, I know I’ll be posting like CRAZY when that day finally comes for us, but it’s just a reminder sometimes.
Chelsea Johnson says
I disagree. I don’t think that you should be the one to block things from other people or worry about offending people with your joy. If someone has a problem with what you are posting, they can hide your posts themselves.
Chelley says
I agree. Freedom of speech. People shouldn’t have to hold back just because of others who are jealous or offended. If they are truly your friend, they would be happy for you despite their own battles. If they’re not happy for you, they should not even be on your friends list!
Chelsea Johnson says
Thanks, Chelley!
Jenny Robbins says
I love this list. I’m going to be a first time grandma and have the privilege of staying with my daughter for baby’s first month. I want to be as much help as I can while giving mom and dad the space and time they need to be awesome parents. I expect that cooking, cleaning, and laundry should be high on MY list, but I plan on some serious cuddle time, too.
Chelsea Johnson says
How exciting! My mom has come both times my children were born and it helped a lot! All of those things you listed will definitely be appreciated, I’m sure! Congrats!
Megan Swanek says
Thanks for posting! Due June 2nd.
Chelsea Johnson says
Congratulations! I hope everything goes well!
Christina says
Things are a little different here in Canada- like if you have a midwife they come to you of rate first few check ups, not having insurance to report to etc. I would definitely add to the list though to write a letter to your baby and if you have other children get them to write a letter or draw a picture too. They are fun to look back on. Also sleep and take care of yourself!
Chelsea Johnson says
Oh those would be such cute things to put in the baby book! And yes, definitely take care of yourself! If you can’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of baby!
Patricia says
Great tips and very helpful for a new mom like me.
Chelsea Johnson says
Thanks, Patricia! Hope they help! You should check out 14 Tips for First Time Moms if you are a new mom!
Morrisa says
Please be careful with Tylenol. Our pediatrician said no pain meds before 2 months. Some recommend 3 months. Longer for motrin. And no tylenol before shots. It may reduce the effectiveness of the vaccine.
Chelsea Johnson says
I think it depends on your pediatrician. We were able to give both our babies baby Tylenol after their shots. Definitely not before shots, though. And babies shouldn’t have ibuprofen/motrin until six months. Thanks for the reminder!
mikmarie says
Agreed on not giving Tylenol before shots. My ped said that because it can reduce the effectiveness of vaccines, it is better to wait to see if there is pain and that there are other ways to try to lessen it before giving meds (warm bath, etc.).
Chelsea Johnson says
Yup! Thanks for your input!! No Tylenol before shots!
Jessica Dougherty says
I’m expecting my first child in a few weeks…this is very helpful…thank you!
Chelsea Johnson says
Congrats, Jessica! If you haven’t already seen 25 Things to Do Before Your Baby is Born, I would check out that post, too!
Julie says
I remember thinking I’d need so much stuff for my first baby, and then for my second I kept strictly to the minimum. Car seat, clothes and that’s pretty much it. He slept with us, used our blankets and breastfed. It was SO much cheaper than the first and we enjoyed it much more.
Chelsea Johnson says
You really don’t need as much stuff as people say you do. If you really just want the bare minimum, it doesn’t have to cost that much!
Georgia Boothe says
I love the idea of writing down questions you have for the doctor. I’m one of those that goes blank when anyone asks me if I have any questions. I’m sure it’s even worse when you’ve just had a baby and are completely sleep-deprived! Having a baby is such a unique and new experience–you’ll want to have as much information as possible. A good doctor will be willing to help answer any questions!
Chelsea Johnson says
Right? I’m even that way at my prenatal appointments! Thanks, Georgia!
tabletshablet says
great tips for new mommies. keep writing
Chelsea Johnson says
Thanks!
Good For Babies says
Great Tips…Thanks for sharing this.
Chelsea Johnson says
You’re welcome!